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| lovinlife | Does the pain of meth ever go away?
Just want to know if anyone else feel like I do. I am still hurt by the things meth has caused me in my life and the thoughts of what if I had never used would things have been different ? Does anyone else feel like this? |
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| no more mething around |
Re: Does the pain of meth ever go away?
Yes, but it isn't very productive to stay there long. You might as well just be doing it if you're going to stay stuck there. As you gain more and more clean time, you begin to appreciate the person you become. You sometimes even can say, " I'm not proud of what I've done, but I'm proud I did what it took to be this person I am now. " I'm not a big believer in looking in the rearview for long. PS One foot in front of the other!!! |
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| danima l55 |
Re: Does the pain of meth ever go away? ^Ditto Lisa^ The pain goes away when quit lamenting over it and move with what we *do* have...... and we do have a lot! Build on the positives, address the wreckage and get clear of it once and for all. It's all a process, a lifelong process of healing and self discovery. It's a journey, not a destination. Enjoy the trip |
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| Paws from hell |
Re: Does the pain of meth ever go away? I'm going to quote here from a book of mine..... We must be done with the past, not cling to it. We want to look our past in the face see it for what it really was and release it so we can live today. Yes I have felt exactly like you, I know your pain , exactly. If you're clean today, and want to be clean for the rest of your life ,,, that should be your focus now. Pick up, go forward, and clean up your side of the street. Forgive yourself for everything bad you're thinking about yourself, Recovery,,, amazing,.... |
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| evewuz framed69 |
Re: Does the pain of meth ever go away? Honey I've got to believe that everything happens for a reason--including my near fatal bout with meth. I've been frequently told that dwelling on "should have" or "would have" keeps you from enjoying what you have. Meth-free, you have been given a new lease on life. Each new day is a gift from your Higher Power to do with what you will. Enjoy your recovery. |
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| nineyear sclean |
Re: Does the pain of meth ever go away?Quote: Of course things would have been different
had I never used. I wouldn't have wasted 13 years of my life on
meth; I wouldn't have squandered those 13 years while my son was
growing up; time I can never have back; years I can't do over;
mistakes I can't undo. |
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| forget
suzette |
Re: Does the pain of meth ever go away? I feel exactly like you do every minute of everyday. ..........you are not alone. it comes in waves .....it rolls in, it rolls out. but it never stops. |
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| starry eyed |
Does the pain of meth
ever go away?
Hi lovinlife. I am five years drug free and I don't know if the pain ever goes away completely, but I do know it does lessen over time. When my regrets and self-hatred were at their peak, I finally had make myself realize something. I told myself loud and clear that I do NOT have to re-live all the events of that time every day over and over in my head. I ALREADY LIVED IT ONCE, and I made it out. I do not need to go back there and torture myself with it, because it's OVER. Forgiving yourself is extremely hard. It's still very difficult for me to reconcile the past with the present. As Maya Angelou so wisely said, "You did what you knew how to do, and when you knew better, you did better." I think that's the idea all of us as ex-drug users have to embrace. We all stumble along the path of life and some of us fell really, really hard. But you keep on going and you do other things and then the past doesn't define you so much. |
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| Sfj | Re: Does the pain of meth ever go away? Hey starryeyed, I really liked that quote: Quote: She also knew why the caged bird sings. |
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| starry eyed |
Re: Does the pain of meth ever go away? Thanks, Sfj. I really like it too because it so clearly and simply defines what most of us do to get through life. Most of us are just trying to get through life the best we know how. |
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| chrisgonz | Re: Does the pain of meth ever go away? I used to think like that...how bad I'd messed up. Then finally I realized...the past is the past, I can't do anything about what's been done except LEARN from it. I am the student, life is the instructor. Live and learn. |
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| starry eyed |
Re: Does the pain of meth ever go away? You know this topic has me thinking. Sometimes the pain is like a cold, wet, stinking gorilla that just keeps squeezing you and squeezing you until you can't breathe. Sometimes it's like the shadow of a jet over a huge field. One minute it's there, the next it's gone. |
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