silly
veronica |
Sex / Erection After Meth
I always hate posting these
"sex" questions on here, but not sure where else to find the
answers.
BF would have the typical sex for hours when he was using. Now
that he's clean, he can get an erection but he has a very hard
time keeping it. It goes soft after just a short while and takes
a lot to get hard again.
Is this normal? Does it go away on its own? He's convinced he
has a problem outside of the meth (he's 35) and says he wants to
see a doctor about getting Cialis. I would prefer he have
nothing in his system and think it will resolve on its own.
Anyone? |
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katelin
24 |
Re: Sex / Erection After Meth
how long has he been clean? |
never
ending |
Re: Sex / Erection After Meth
when I do have sex with mine, he
takes less than 10 minutes. he is a meth user who once again is
back on the needle. maybe it's because he's always jacking off
to porn, or maybe he's got something better on the side... I
give up |
silly
veronica |
Re: Sex / Erection After Meth
He's been clean since just
before Christmas.
I think he's just used to performing while high and that maybe
he needs awhile to readjust to what sex is like w/out being
high. But who am I to say. |
redhd
37343 |
Re: Sex / Erection After Meth
I too
would like to know about the erection thing..My boyfriend has
been off the meth(IV) since Sept. But of late has been having
trouble with keeping an erection. Is there permanent blood
vessel damage from meth use?? |
| paceset |
Re: Sex / Erection After Meth
I
found some great medical information on the website regarding
the myths about meth and sex-the physical tole it takes on the
body as a whole as well as the psycholocal are huge. From what I
have heard also from some male addicts is that all the guys have
that holding an erection problem after a while of use-many of
the female addicts I have talked to have mentioned the "crummy"
sex with other addicts...I am starting to believe that perhaps
the "great sex for guys on meth" is just a meth induced
delusion....or maybe some men just have those kinds of side
effects but regardless, the statistics show that meth destroys
just about every normalfunctin in the body eventually. |
katelin
24
|
Re: Sex / Erection After Meth
I
also think he just needs some adjustment time. He's going
through a lot. Make sure he knows you don't think any less of
him because of the erection thing. He's probably depressed and
insecure right now.
JMO. |
silly
veronica |
Re: Sex / Erection After Meth
Katie - Totally agree ... and I've said over
and over again that it's not an issue, things from my
perspective are still great, he thinks it's worse than it is,
etc. He was insecure to start out with, and this has just made
it ten times worse.
I just didn't know whether this was something that would/could
go away on its own ... or whether it's an actual medical
condition that needs to be addressed with a doctor. |
| Sfj |
Re: Sex / Erection After Meth
The problems you mentioned usually decrease
with time. A healthier male will have fewer problems than one
who has constant health problems. A good heart, a strong heart
muscle, good blood circulation and good attitudes do wonders for
a guy's sex life.
Things like vigorous aerobic exercise, healthy diet, proper
sleep, and good living will increase a man's cardiovascular
health. That in turn, will do wonders to facilitate supplying
enough blood to Mr. Happy at the appropriate time. |
desp
housewife |
Re: Sex / Erection After Meth
Quote:
How's that working for you?
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| Sfj |
Re: Sex / Erection After Meth
Works very well for me.
But I'm a just a bit of an exercise fanatic also. |
